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This is how you lose her.

You lose her when you forget to remember the little things that mean the world to her: the sincerity in a stranger’s voice during a trip to the grocery, the delight of finding something lost or forgotten like a sticker from when she was five, the selflessness of a child giving a part of his meal to another, the scent of new books in the store, the surprise short but honest notes she tucks in her journal and others you could only see if you look closely.

You must remember when she forgets.

You lose her when you don’t notice that she notices everything about you: your use of the proper punctuation that tells her continuation rather than finality, your silence when you’re about to ask a question but you think anything you’re about to say to her would be silly, your mindless humming when it is too quiet, your handwriting when you sign your name in blank sheets of paper, your muted laughter when you are trying to be polite, and more and more of what you are, which you don’t even know about yourself, because she pays attention.

She remembers when you forget.

You lose her for every second you make her feel less and less of the beauty that she is. When you make her feel that she is replaceable. She wants to feel cherished. When you make her feel that you are fleeting. She wants you to stay. When you make her feel inadequate. She wants to know that she is enough and she does not need to change for you, nor for anyone else because she is she and she is beautiful, kind and good.

You must learn her.

You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.

You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.

And, this is how you keep her

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asifthisisme:

P. Anthony Tripoli & Jasmine Garcia
www.instagram.com/thrashonistas

M. Levi Stocke
www.instagram.com/levistoke

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freundevonfreunden:

Will Letter for Lunch

We came across this cool and clever idea for snatching a tasty plate of food and trying out different restaurants along the way. Graphic designer Lauren Hom hand-writes menus on blackboards in beautiful typography in exchange for a free meal at each location. She later posts her work and meal on the aptly named Will Letter for Lunch.

Lauren got the idea after noticing that most eateries overlooked the importance of the chalkboard and the fact that typefaces make everything more appealing. Service for nourishment done the old-fashioned way.

Look at what she writes and eats on her blog.

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"She removes her wig, her eyelashes, her makeup, never breaking eye contact with the reflection of her natural self. It’s an intimate, powerful moment television doesn’t often show: A black woman removing all the elements white supremacy tells her she has to wear to be beautiful, successful, powerful." (x)

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lizclimo:

shark attack 

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